Woolie
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The problem with stress is that we can't rely on our retrospective recall to assess it. I'm sure most of us have thought a lot about the events going on during the lead-up to our illness, and what role they might have played. So the events are going to be salient in our minds, whereas we totally forget other times when we've been euqally stressed - or even more stressed - because they were without consequence. There's a recall bias.
Another problem is that in the early stages of the illness, many of us were trying to fight through it. So given the state of our health at the time, it felt like we were putting ourselves under a lot of stress trying to press on. But in this scenario, in stress isn't a clear cause, it sort of happened alongside the developing illness.
The third problem is that although stress can in principle be mental or physical (e.g. overexertion, sleep deprivation etc.), the two are almost always yoked together. So you're stressed about a work deadline (mental stress), but the result of that is that you stay up late, skp sleep, etc. (physical stress).
I wasn't under particular stress when I got ill (the stress started when I had to cancel stuff and explain why I could fulfill my responsibilities).
And paradoxcially, since then, some of the times of highest stress in my life have been the most symptom-free. Long-haul flights (which most people would think of as physically stressful) always gave me a few days' relief from illness after I landed. And one of my best periods of good health was the 12 months after my marriage broke up.
Another problem is that in the early stages of the illness, many of us were trying to fight through it. So given the state of our health at the time, it felt like we were putting ourselves under a lot of stress trying to press on. But in this scenario, in stress isn't a clear cause, it sort of happened alongside the developing illness.
The third problem is that although stress can in principle be mental or physical (e.g. overexertion, sleep deprivation etc.), the two are almost always yoked together. So you're stressed about a work deadline (mental stress), but the result of that is that you stay up late, skp sleep, etc. (physical stress).
I wasn't under particular stress when I got ill (the stress started when I had to cancel stuff and explain why I could fulfill my responsibilities).
And paradoxcially, since then, some of the times of highest stress in my life have been the most symptom-free. Long-haul flights (which most people would think of as physically stressful) always gave me a few days' relief from illness after I landed. And one of my best periods of good health was the 12 months after my marriage broke up.
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