@lansbergen - The first antibodies are always present at a low level in the serum. B-cells, even unstimulated, continually produce low levels of whatever antibody they are programmed to secrete. If you test normal healthy people for antibodies to just about anything (autoimmune or to a pathogen, or even allergies) - they will pretty much all have some level of antibodies to pretty much everything. In the absence of significant stimulation, B-cells won't produce a lot of any particular antibody though - not enough to cause problems. That's why there's a "normal" range for autoantibodies on tests. My ANA is not negative - it's normal range - and the same is probably true of you and most people.
Your question makes some assumptions that are not necessarily correct. For one, you seem to assume that autoantibodies are a result of epitope mimicry, which may or may not be true (most likely, it's true for some cases, like GBS, and not for others, like RA). I know Dr. Edwards is of the belief that it is rarely relevant. If an epitope is identical to a self epitope, then in theory, you won't amplify any response to it, as autoreactive lymphocytes won't ever get into circulation (they are selected out in the thymus). So A2 and A3 won't amplify a response to an autoantibody - and the more it looks like self the less it will be responded to. When a lymphocyte gets into circulation, it already is programmed with which antigens it will recognize. The only thing that it's waiting for is a signal to proliferate because its particular antigen has been encountered. There is no ability of lymphocytes to "adapt" to a given invader. Rather, there are a wide array of lymphocytes each with a predetermined target. The lymphocyte that will be helpful is selected and proliferates, and the others just hang out waiting for stimulation. They don't participate in the immune response to that antigen.
So there is no real "time for first antibodies to appear." They will predate any infection. The question is more appropriately one of, "at what time will titers against this epitope reach this level" and the answer is a graph, with titers on the y axis and time on the x axis. What you'd observe is that before infection, titers would remain low and relatively constant over long periods. Once the antigen is present and the B-cells are stimulated to make the antibodies, the growth initially looks exponential but then plateaus, and finally begins to decline, and then plateaus again at a lower level (antibodies are continually produced from memory B-cells).
This is for a foreign antigen. The mechanisms that govern autoantibody production are, however, different - and incompletely understood. In a normal immune system, if the antigen looks like self, there should not be any B-cells at all that will react to it. If it looks a bit like self, there might be some that escaped clonal deletion that would make low avidity antibodies to self, but in these cases, you'd have to assume that the self antigens already present would not be sufficient to amplify an immune response, or the immune response would have been amplifying for a long time, as those epitopes are always present.
The immune system is not smart at all in the way it makes different lymphocytes that respond to different antigens. Rather, it takes the approach of making an antigen for every single possible epitope (slight exaggeration). The adaptive nature comes in which clones amplify to significantly greater numbers, and which ones just float around waiting for an antigen they recognize - and in many cases never encounter.
The exact epitopes that we respond to are governed by molecules we have called HLA's, or human leukocyte antigens. They "present" foreign antigens. Which exact epitopes are chosen is very different between different HLA's, and different human beings have extremely different HLA's. When your HLA's match someone else's, you can swap organs (for organ transplantation) or bone marrow. Since they are inherited for the most part in a block on chromosome 6, siblings have a 25% chance of being a perfect match, 50% chance of being haploidentical (sharing one parent's HLA's, but having different HLA's from the other parent), and a 25% chance of being completely different. This is why siblings are generally your only realistic hope of finding a bone marrow match in your family (the registry works by just having hundreds of thousands of people, so that you can match purely based on chance - and even then, many do not match). Parents are almost always 5/10 for bone marrow, maybe 6 or even 7 by chance if parents share HLA's with each other.
HLA's are very important in autoimmunity. MS is strongly linked to HLA-DR3, RA to HLA-DR4 and HLA-DR1, ankylosing spondylitis and the other seronegative arthropathies to HLA-B27 (which is not antibody-mediated autoimmunity, but rather an autoinflammatory condition - but is still the immune system attacking the body), etc. Lupus is strongly tied to the 8.1 haplotype including HLA-DR3. Almost, if not every, autoimmune disease has been linked to HLA's. They are likely the single most important genes in determining autoimmunity, and more specifically, which autoimmune diseases a person might develop. They also affect resistance to microbes. Some HLA's will react quite strongly to key parts of particular microbes. HLA-B27, which increases risk of AS, also reduces rate of progression in HIV. This does suggest that in autoimmunity or autoinflammatory disease, you need to be able to react to certain molecular patterns. I'm not sure if there are any HLA's that completely prevent any autoimmune disease - there might be. There might be some and we don't even know about it.
Even in these cases, it's not clear that epitope mimicry is involved. With HLA