hmnr asg
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my girlfriend really understands the concetp of CFS, we watched "Unrest" and she even cried. And she is a very nice and supportive person.
However, when it comes to everyday life, its very hard for her to be as sensitive to my invisible disability as i want her to be. I mean, how can i expect her to be mindful of my extremely limited energy budget when one month i seem much better and i can wash dishes, and then the next month i crash and i can barely move. Automatically she assumes im using CFS as an excuse to be a crappy partner. And i dont blame her, its too easy to interpret it that way.
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However, when it comes to everyday life, its very hard for her to be as sensitive to my invisible disability as i want her to be. I mean, how can i expect her to be mindful of my extremely limited energy budget when one month i seem much better and i can wash dishes, and then the next month i crash and i can barely move. Automatically she assumes im using CFS as an excuse to be a crappy partner. And i dont blame her, its too easy to interpret it that way.
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