Hi
@allyann
I am really sorry to hear about your son and my heart goes out to you! I also have a son who has autism, so I really do understand what you are going through right now. There is lots of help and support out there, from information and support from support groups.
I'm not sure how old your son is or whether his has mild or severe autism, but depending on where you live in the world will depend on what school and/or whether your son qualifies for 1:1 to help him with his learning and transitioning when when there are on the spot changes during the school day. I work 1:1 with children who need specialist support in schools and my speciality is working with severe autism and behavoural. Here in the U.K. for those children that need specialist provision have health care plans, they used to be called statements. For those that qualify, it will go with them throughout there education and those that have them, are entitled to have adult support, whether it be 1:1 or small group support.
If you are from U.K. I can point you in right direction of what support is out there for you and your child. As for a link between ME and autism, they are 2 separate conditions and in no way linked. There is, however an overlap with autism and ADHD which can often cross over into each other. It is quite common for children diagnosed with autism to have ADHD and sleep disorders.
I know you are probably overwhelmed right now and trying to process all that is going on, but you will be ok and so will your son. You will find the strength you didn't even know you had to help your son and he will thrithe from your love and support. You will come out the other end a strong lady who can handle anything life throws at you.
I hope this helps you Much love and hugs sent your way
Edited; yes autism and ADHD can be passed down genetically.