Woolie
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@Woolie my onset and for the followingt 8yrs of illness did not fit the ME model, I attended a few support groups and thought to myself, " man, I don't have what they have!". I was initially diagnosed with PVFS. It all changed when I improved to 90% and started exercising.
Granted, her doctor diagnosed her and she feels that's what she had, but It's seems odd to me that she still doesn't understand this illness. Did she not do her own research to educate herself over the years that exercising is contradicted and doesn't lead to recovery? Why don't these celebrities just accept that they never had ME and stop advertising that exercising and lifestyle changes lead to their recovery?
@Mij, I totally see everyone's fury, I share it... and don't in any way want to say its not warranted!
All of us on this thread, including me, agree these kinds of stories are damaging. I just put more of the blame on the journalists than their subjects (poor woman, her illness -whatever it was - destroyed her hopes of a career as an olympic athlete.. okay, she made good in the end, but at the time, must have been unbearable).
Don't get me started on the gutter press, they love a story about how somebody ate some wonder food/did some great programme and "beat" cancer, autism, MS. etc.... and then there's the terms like "beating" and "battling" in stories about illness. Like somehow ill people just have to "fight" hard enough and they will win.. grr...
The only point I wanted to make earlier - and probably not the right time or place - was in general we should be wary of judging those who are not as severely ill as us as not having "real" ME (the "half-sick" as I saw it referred to in one post!). If someone makes a full recovery, does that mean they couldn't possibly have had "real" ME, it must have been depression all along? How can we say that in our current state of knowledge? I'd hate people here who are more ill than me to judge me as not having "real" ME, just depression! ME's probably a group of conditions, but we're all united by our desire to be treated appropriately and for our conditions to be fully researched. If you lose just 3 years to the illness, like Johanna Griggs, or 24, like me, I want that for you.
The answer: maybe journalists should be required to put a disclaimer on their medical miracle articles like on diet ads: "Results not representative"?