It just so happens that I've met a couple of people who have either gone into what looks like complete remission from ME or are doing a hell of a lot better than me with ME. (If I have ME, which, of course I still don't really know) Anyway, talk to them for a few minutes and what I get is the "I went to bed" description or "I go to bed every day" from one friend. I didn't go to bed - had baby and other kids to take care of and even though I lost my four jobs I did manage to complete my MA (not sure how!) . Anyway each time I meet an "I went to bed" person i wonder if I scuppered my chance of remission by not going to bed. I know Nancy Klimas has said in the past that the best chance of remission is with "enforced bed rest". I know it's a bit late - but, is going to bed the answer? If so, can we spread the news so that less people end up like me?