Yes, sorry to hear about your loss, Strawberry. May your cousin rest in peace. I will come and do your nails for you once I've learned... ;o)
I have learned lots from this thread, thank you! I usually slop on 1-2 coats of colored polish. I definitely don't want fake nails or claws either lol! I'm trying to learn about shellac, it sounds like a combination of gel polish and regular... maybe I will have to buy a bottle. I've always painted my own nails, never gone to a salon.. too cheap!
take care, everyone! My nails are currently dark blue and I love it

I'm not a red person...
Hi Juanita.....I hope you had a better day today. I'll bet you don't slop on anything but are very careful and your nails look so, too. From what I can gather, with the gel it's not so much putting it on (although I'm probably not going to do the world's smoothest job),but the taking off that is the problem. Why don't you try a salon just once. Truly, they aren't that expensive, although I don't know where you live, and it's nice to be among women who are just trying to look nice. I was in one once and a bunch of burly fireman came in for pedicures. I (of course!) was talking to one of them and he said that having a good pedicure (no color though) was one of the best things he ever did. See, he was there for the foot massage and leg massage with hot rocks on his legs. Clip job, also. They showed up about once every 6 wks. or so.
I'm sure the dark blue does look lovely on you.....I missed the light blue phase and now just use pinks and never red. Maybe nearer Xmas, as a pedicure, but not as a manicure. The yellow is highly unusual and I'm forever amazed at the colors they come up with.
Some are fronts for sex selling rings....get these girls as slaves almost. Work them to the bone during the day and then they're used sexually at night. The policemen around here seem to keep a close eye on things, but these poor women have heartbreaking lives from morning 'til bedtime at the best of times.
We had a raid on a store near us and the owners were shown being taken away in handcuffs. They're still awaiting trial. Meanwhile dozens of women were finally set free. You don't even know what's in plan sight.
Oh, it just occurred to me, a young girl who uses polish may be a big help in making up your mind about which way to go. She would also be able to tell you the pluses and minuses of different types of topcoats. An undercoat and then a nail hardener on top will make any polish last. That I do know from when I did my nails myself. Good luck with it all. Report back. Yours, Lenora.