Forgiving is fine for those who have not orchestrated this whole sorry affair. I understand entirely that people have been fed a pack of lies and twisted facts. But, personally, I will have a very hard time forgiving the people who deliberately misled and maligned. People have been dying in despair. I don't see that their actions should be forgiveable.
I imagine we're all in the same place. I don't think most people are suggesting we forgive and forget where the perpetrators of the lies and harm are concerned.
Perpetrators who want to be forgiven are going to have to demonstrate, in a big way, both their change of heart and willingness to do whatever repair can be done at this late date. I can't forgive those who don't want to be forgiven because they don't believe they did anything that needs forgiving. I can move on and put them behind me, but imo an unwillingness to acknowledge the harm they've done will lead to them continuing to do harm.
While theoretically there's a scenario where I see the possibility of forgiving White, Wesseley, Crawley, and the rest of the crew, realisticly I don't see them willing to do what is necessary to show their sincere regret and do what they can to repair the damage. The best I'm hoping for is that they are forever removed from the world of ME/CFS and that they are not allowed to abuse any other vulnerable population in the future.
As for journalists, people like Goldacre, and the average GP... well, if they're willing to say they're sorry, they were taken in by the perpetrators of the BPS School of Lies but now they know better and won't denigrate PWME anymore, I'm willing to forgive and move on.