Hi
If you know anyone, a friend, neighbour or family member who is nurse, maybe you could get someone to give her an saline IV.
IV saline solution and IV equipment is available by ebay (you may have to order it in from overseas Ive ordered hospital approved stuff before from ebay, it is expensive but if it makes me feel a lot better and helps get me back on feet again its worth it). I wonder if due to the bleeds and the ME, low blood volume too could be knocking her around a lot and she may need more fluids then the hospital is aware.
When I get very bad, 2 Litres of saline really can help pick me up some (you probably wouldnt give a child that much though I guess things like that also would depend just not on how bad a person is with low blood volume but the persons size).
I guess if you tried this you could probably go by her blood pressure (take it and watch for shifts, when my blood volume is better and my body has had enough IV, my blood pressure stabilises and stops shifting dramatically to postural changes such as to sitting and standing from laying).. and how she feels with it to help know if you are giving her too much and test out if she's an ordinary sized teen say 500ml trial one day and 1L a couple of days later if the 500ml didn't seem to do anything.
I can tell when Ive had enough IV by feel. With so much (for me its around 1L) I can sit easier (by that point Im not feeling so dreadful) but with a bit more (another 1L) I can stand without it causing BP issues and other problems.
When my blood volume gets even worst then it usually is, I feel feverish (and often have fever), feel that horrible fluish kind of feel where one feels extreme malaise (over all unwellness sick feel and less energy). I will continue feeling like crap and this way till I get an IV (things like electrolyes, I just mostly pee out though they can help a bit at times but not if I'm too bad). So I wonder if some of her crash is cause her blood volume hasn't picked back up enough after the bleed and the surgery. It can be bad enough without having bleeds.
Other then that, there may not be a to which will help except to wait out till the crash is over and keep resting. (and yeah taking her anywhere in such a state could do more harm then good). Don't do anything which could risk making her worst. It could take her 6mths ... or a year to recover from surgery with this condition due to the stress her body has been through.
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