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https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/...ck9DQwCp5rZS_clK4XwzuRY0262I60wn9wS7SHePKOYsc
Chronic fatigue syndrome: ‘It felt like I’d been in a car crash’
Chronic fatigue syndrome: ‘It felt like I’d been in a car crash’
Asked what would change his life, a 14-year-old boy with ME said that what would help most was “being believed”.
Time and again in more than 4,000 written testimonies from a survey of ME sufferers, the desire to be believed is articulated.
Patients tell of extreme pain in muscles and joints, limbs that won’t respond to command, struggles to perform basic tasks, exhaustion after activity, “brain fog”, sleep that brings no rest, hypersensitivity to light and noise and, in the most severe cases, being bedridden.
Far too often, they say, health professionals tell them that these symptoms are caused by mental health problems or anxiety.
One woman from Birmingham was told her condition was “caused by emotional issues”. She added: “They maintained that it was likely because of autism and depression.”
Analysis of the Action for ME survey paints a bleak picture: 92 per cent of sufferers said they were isolated from the outside world; 88 per cent relied on family care, more than 60 per cent had had their symptoms for more than ten years. Many had given up on, or distrust, the medical profession.
Their stories are an indictment of years of debate about whether ME is a physical or mental health condition, instead of significant research to identify a cause.
Dr Muirhead learnt nothing about ME when she was a medical student and was dismissive of the condition after qualifying.
“I had very little time for patients with ME — I didn’t really understand the illness,” Dr Muirhead said. “It was very non-specific, it wasn’t taught very well at medical school and because I couldn’t categorise it or treat it I pretty much ignored that as a diagnosis. I genuinely did not believe in it.”
Her view changed when she was flattened by the illness and spent six months bedridden with crippling pain and exhaustion.
With her scepticism that ME existed at all, she did not recognise what was happening and thought she might have a brain tumour or multiple sclerosis because there were neurological symptoms including speech problems, tinnitus, tingling in her fingers and difficulties balancing.
She kept trying to work and run the family home: “I could barely peg out the washing but I was still doing it. I was still trying to cook a meal. I kept nearly flooding the bath, burning pans of pasta because I couldn’t concentrate for long.”
She was finally given a diagnosis of ME in July 2017. Even then, her problems with medical colleagues did not stop.