crying realease stress, also it removes toxins..maybe that's why you feel better.After reading you story story herpes baby, it looks to me more like emotional trauma what you are going on..that sexual experience you describe can have huge emotional repercussion,losing the job aswell..You can see what is going on with the herpes infection,and see what can be done also . you feel sick for less that 3 months, why you already think you have this monstrous disease me/cfs??..It will affect you even more emotionally.In your place i will check what going on with the infection,if its still active and read absolutely nothing about me/cfs, forget about this ilness for few months//is symptoms linger and get worse wihtout explanation come back here..but right now it's not good for you to think about this ilness.Trust me with this !!