I'm so sorry to hear you have been let down with care too.
It's such an uphill battle and then if you get help it could just be the wrong kind.
I hope you get your new GP as you hope. If you need benefits then ask for help, it doesn't have to be about what your Dr says although it can help, I don't think mine did anything to help my cause but I have been awarded some anyway as I cannot work at all for a few reasons to do with my health.
I have been profoundly disappointed by the medical profession. On many levels, in many ways.
I really ought to close and lock the door on the situation. But I am not financially independent yet and not well enough to even work part time.
I cant get through the benefits process alone as its my weak spot. I need a supportive, knowledgeable G.P.
One who tells me it is my right to get benefits and really encourages me. Although I did not know that you can be awarded benefits even with an unsupportive G.P. Good for YOU!!
Current G.P. gave me a fit/sick note stating M.E. whilst saying 'There is nothing wrong with you'. That psychologically scarred me. I also have to endure other forms of abuse at the surgery like being told to get a Charity job, loud voices shouting at me, the electric lights, being told by staff to have a one night stand to get pregnant (since i mentioned my illness has prevented my dream of having children), being denied correct testing, being told my blood pressure is normal, prescribed breathing exercises which gave me a severe relapse , caused unpresidented swelling in my head with visible lumps, a collapse, and all Doc did was get me an appointment for an MRI 8 weeks later at whichI I couldnt get to. I lost my ability to drive which has not yet returned.
Have beeng denied funding for acupuncture and other alternative therapies I think will help me, and whilst denying me tests that could at the very least help support my case claiming benefits, i am being harrassed every year to take Flu Vaccinations, and smear tests. Offered CBT!
Three months of benefits of £60 per week in over two decades of illness is all I have received.
Past G.Ps. not been any better. Have had about four in total . Had almost a decade with no G.P. . One was particularly abusive. and its difficult to get over. Sick of their politely violent ideas.
My closest G.P. to me is unable to speak very much English. Not only can I not understand him, I doubt he would understand me.
Coupled with neurological/cognitive problems, a hidden camera and you have the makings of a great comedy sketch.
So it is important to me to be able to choose a G.P. I think they ought to be obliged though to have websites about them and their interests and I would like to interview them before joining their surgery to get an idea of compatibility.