Thanks, beaker, but his professional status actually makes it worse - he is a bully. I have responded again on Amazon but not directly addressing him, I refer to him in third person, I just want others to know who he is. I feel better now and must go outside and get some sun, my vitamin D levels are probably below zero, there is rarely sun in Scotland. Am copying and pasting recent comments, charming Brian may well delete later. I will also need to learn how to quote stuff here, how do I get the pink highlighted background for quotes, when you cut and paste prev. comments? Such a newbie, as you can tell!
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nasim marie jafry says:
Thanks, SN, for your kind response. Yes, I know as pwME we should protect ourselves from the harsh and unkind commentary that so often comes our way, we should simply ignore it, but I just feel this popular science book must be challenged and that is why I have been online so much trying to educate. As many of you know I seldom go on ME forums these days, so am not used to the ill will - and sheer nastiness - that is out there. But I naively thought a book review forum would be an ideal platform to educate and engage with others. The arrogance of this particular man towards me has been wholly unfounded - I wonder what is motives are, why does he feel so threatened that he has to dismiss me and frame me as irrational. It's disgusting. When I was told he was prof emeritus at UCL, the irony did not escape me that Peter Behan is prof emeritus in neurology at Glasgow Uni. I would love to see Behan discuss ME with charmer Brian. He could perhaps explain to Brian where I got 'my passion for believing my illness is physical' - to paraphrase Brian in an earlier comment.
s n copson says:
Nasim, I would personally like to thank you for all your comments and responses about this book. Please don't be hurt or disheartened by reviewers such as Brian. On leaving a shop yesterday, an old man walked towards me, clearly angry and frustrated. He very deliberately kept to his path despite bumping into me and my young step son. When I apologised (for him) he informed me that I should be sorry. I felt sad for this man. Not sure why but this thread has remained me of this encounter.
Thinking of you especially this Father's Day. And thank you again for expending precious energy on our behalf. Your book was a great support to me at my worst stages of this devastating illness.
nasim marie jafry says:
For a 75-year-old professor emeritus, Brian's behaviour is bizarrely immature - the way he nastily and thoughtlessly put myself and Countess of Mar in the firing line in his original review smacks of misogyny. And the repeated risible threats to take his review down, like it actually matters. It only means the rest of us have wasted precious energy commenting.
Still, I suspect that even although he has arrogantly dismissed everything I've said, he has actually learned some things, as there has been a marked change in his general tone about ME being psychosomatic. As I pointed out - which he of course evaded - he has edited a previous comment, after people have responded, and that is simply duplicitous.
And as someone said to me this morning, is it a coincidence that he also works at UCL? Does this explain *his* irrational defence of Dr 0'Sullivan? The physics professor may impress himself, but he has only made himself look charmless and unpleasant on this thread. And in my opinion, he has simply come across as a bully.
F. Paul Watton says:
To quote exercise physiologist Professor Keller, who wrote in January 2015:
"Given what we have learned in the past eight years about this illness, it is intellectually embarrassing to suggest that ME is a psychological illness."
I would stress that the problem with allowing ineffective "stop-gap" therapies (such as CBT & GET) to become the established norm, is that they not only gain unwarranted credibility, but that they also blunt the overall sense of an urgent need for something that actually works - particularly within medical and political circles.
Dr O'Sullivan has failed to report recent compelling scientific evidence as far as M.E/cfs is concerned and in so doing, has done a grave disservice to the patients whom she claims to be trying to help.