I can't thank you all enough for your feedback on this issue. Based on the comments here, I think I may have an idea as to what's been going on with the sudden, dramatic post-meal crashing. I started taking Epsom salt baths about a month ago to help with the very severe insomnia I was having. I only did the full baths a few times per week, but on the other days did an Epsom salt foot soak for at least 10 minutes before bed. I'm so grateful for Dufresne's comment about Epsom being a vasodilator, as I didn't realize that.
My adrenals have also been quite weak due to the lack of sleep and some supplements I've been taking to cure an H. pylori infection (mastic and zinc-carnosine). After reading the comments here about low blood volume, I found this article online by Dr. Teitelbaum on the topic
http://www.endfatigue.com/health_articles_c/Cfs_fm-treating_low_blood_volume_and_heart.html . He also mentions anemia as a factor. I then found an article online that said that H. pylori causes anemia. I don't eat red meat and haven't been taking iron supplements, so I'm thinking that might be a factor in making the low blood volume worse. I just started taking some iron yesterday.
I've also started to increase my salt intake and have taken 1/2 tsp. of baking soda in water after breakfast the last couple of days. (Does anyone know how much salt is okay for PWC to consumer per day?) And I've increased the fat content in my breakfast, as some have recommended here.
I've also been experiencing some pretty intense autonomic nervous system reactions late at night due to ileoccecal valve syndrome (ICV), which started a few months ago shortly after I had laparoscopic surgery. With the ICV issue, I will sometimes get woozy at night after standing and can feel nausea. I've been trying to get a handle on what's causing this condition and so far I've only concluded that it flares up if I eat any roughage or anything I'm somewhat allergic to. But sometimes it seems to flare up for no reason I can discern. I had a colonoscopy recently and they said everything looked okay, so there must be something functional/systemic going on. But the ICV issue is definitely tied in with the autonomic nervous system.
So, I'm going to try skipping the Epsom baths (and hopefully finding something else to help me sleep!), increasing salt and fat, and taking iron to see if that helps. If anyone has any other ideas, I would greatly appreciate hearing them -- especially for how to stabilize the autonomic nervous system so it stays more stable after meals.
But I want to thank you all again. You've saved me hours of research, which I haven't had the brain function or energy to do. I'll let you know how it goes.