Hi SOC
My daughter had a 4 th haemorrhage, and this brought on a relapse. She has been now , for 14 months, weak, prone to PEM from any slight exertion, and a collapse which lasts for weeks. Yes, she could walk,before this, not normally, but she could walk a block.
Seeing this was brought on by a haemorrhage and she could walk a block before this... I wonder if its related to her blood volume.
Maybe her blood volume isn't now regulating right after that haemorrhage??? or maybe the blood volume dropping during the haemorrhage in a ME/CFS person who possibly already had low blood volume like many of us do.. maybe that has damaged something in her body? (what? I have no idea but with low blood volume, organs and all other parts can suffer).
Though I do often get dizziness with my ME/CFS low blood volume, sometimes I dont get the dizziness and instead my legs just suddenly go and I cant walk (or my legs or feet feel weighted).
I've just spent 2 and a half mths not able to walk safely just 3 metres cause I was off my normal postural orthostatic tachycardia sydrome (POTS) treatment (my leg muscles very noticably atrophy in that time but that wasn't why I couldn't walk). POTS is a common coexisting condition to ME/CFS.
Maybe POTS testing in her case would reveal POTS? but I thinks she's currently far too ill to have this test currently done so I don't think she should. (maybe a modified POTS test eg laying to sitting test for POTS "may" show up something and could be attempted. I know when I had worst POTS then I do now, it would even show up on a laying to sitting test)
So, the distance between these horizontal surfaces is not large, just say between 5 and 10 meters or so. That's her maximum distance on good days. And she can't seem to increase the distance. When she tries, as she did today, she becomes violently ill, with horrid malaise, burning all over so she needs Tylenol for that and the pain.
The pain may be due to muscle weakness or muscle atrophy....I don't know. But it's getting worse now. The whole pattern is generally getting worse.
I doubt her pain is due to muscle weakness or muscle atrophy with her whole pattern getting worst. Someones muscles being weak or atrophied, do not make them "violently ill" when they try to do things.
You daughter is doing exactly what she shouldnt be doing, its obvious
she's ME/CFS crashing from over exerting when she tries to walk. Keep doing that and her ME will get worst and worst. She needs to start listening to what her body is telling her, its the only way she probably may be able to stop the progression of what is going on there.
You need to let go of this though of getting her walking and instead go and get her wheelchair and make sure shes' not over doing things to the point of crashing and worsening her condition.
Tell her its okay to use a wheelchair and be pushed in one if needed.
She needs to learn where her limits are (how much she can do without worsening things) .
from your post there seems to be no awareness there that .. pushing to do things.. makes many ME/CFS people worst (and some don't recover then from that).
And I'm not looking forward to tomorrow, as she may be completely bed bound eating in bed.....from the exertion of trying to walk a little more today.
It's as though as the years of illness continue, she is getting weaker and able to do less and not the reverse.
and that getting worst and worst will likely continue on till she learns to manage the illness better and stop pushing her body like she is now. If something makes her worst, don't keep doing it.
sorry that this post sounds harsh. I feel for both your daughter and you.
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Don't push anything onto her which is hard for her to handle. Be aware that with severe ME even getting a massage can crash some a bit and be too much (and massage wont solve severe ME and get a ME patient walking). I know when I was very severe (I was left not able to walk for most of 9mths) that would of actually made me even worst .
Been there, done that.
I was essentially bedbound, only getting up to go to the bathroom. IMO, no exercise or physio is going to help in those circumstances. For me it took (1) treatment for orthostatic intolerance, (2) heavy-duty antivirals, and (3) very high dose CoQ10, to get past PEM from activity as slight as walking across a room.
I completely agree with SOC, no exercise or physio is going to help a ME person in this situation. Like SOC I base this on my own experience with severe ME. (physio made me worst!!! Take care. The only suitable physio would be ones who understand severe ME and they are as rare as hens teeth).
Consider getting your daughter to one of the world known ME specialists for tests and some treatment eg anti-virals or whatever. You'd be best doing this now (and hiring a wheelchair so you can push her) then waiting to see what happens as she could keep getting worst or suddenly get far worst then she is now without a good ME specialist (if once she gets worst, there is no way she'd be able to travel at all in any way even in an wheelchair).