However there is huge danger in totally ignoring these claims. If nobody protests, then why shouldn't everyone presume the claims being made about ME patients and advocates are right? All the claims? Without protest there is no sense of dissent, without dissent then it looks like we agree.They can say what they like, and we have prestamped approval.
Well, when the issue does come up I think it is important to say that even the victims of the threats say it's a very tiny minority of ME patients that have done that (I count maybe 3 semi-specific instances of reported threats), and no one condones it at all. But really, "we" don't actually know anything about those threats except that some things that have popped up in the media seem to include FOI requests as a type of threat!
I think the real issue is to break the mold. Break out of the argument and set our rules. I am only just beginning to think along these lines. We need to create a separate debate about things that matter, not spend time on things that don't. By engaging on things that matter, these other issues may look more and more irrelevant and like distractions.
I think it can be turned around on the BPS school somewhat - that we are being forced to accept their dogma/political views, or risk being denied appropriate care/benefits/recognition/etc. I think we spend a lot of effort trying to disprove the science - that has a place, but once the science has been disproven (as it has been now), we need to stop acting like that is still the major issue. The real issue is that despite the science being disproven, the BPS school is still trying to force its beliefs upon us.
I think framing it in religious and/or political terminology could be a useful approach, since it helps to illustrate that 1) those BPS opinions about ME are not scientific and 2) that we have a right to reject those opinions, just like we have the right to choose our religion and political beliefs. We are being repressed in a variety of ways for their political/dogmatic gain. We are the ill ones and they have made us their victims.
And we shouldn't apologize for being angry! Have you seen the autism advocates going after the pundits who blamed the school massacre on autism? The autism group is being insulted by that blame, they risk being more marginalized by it, and they have every right to be angry. No one seems to think that proves they're mentally unbalanced or should be ignored.