I'm a bit worried that I'm inducting you in to a cult
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I'm a bit worried that I'm inducting you in to a cult
so I washed it last night in preparation and even after four applications of shampoo, it still felt greasy - just gave it another couple, still feels greasy
From what you said there, your shampoo itself is certainly one issue. There is no way in which it should take shampooing hair four times straight to get the oil out. (I wonder if you are using one of those conditioning shampoos, Ive found those to be typically oily). Find a good shampoo in which will get that oily feel out first go so you arent scrubbing your head so much.
I have noticed that if I lather up then let the shampoo "sit" for a minute or two (or 3?) before rinsing, it de-greases better. I think this works better than shampooing twice. Just let it soak in for a few min.
I use John Frieda Sheer Blonde (was using "for dark blonde" but recently switched to "go blonder" variety) because for some reason I've found it degreases really well! And that is actually a big criteria for me. It has to rinse out and take the grease out with it. Then I dilute it halfway with Desert Essence Fragrance Free Shampoo, to reduce the perfumey smell by half.
I think that Desert Essence stuff probably would do a good job degreasing on its own, because it's a squeaky-clean kinda shampoo, but I like mixing with the Sheer Blonde because it detangles too, which I need.
ps--you can get desert essence on iherb.com, can probably get the john frieda on amazon or drugstore.com
Coconut oil may also be good as it is anti inflammatoryHmm. Wow. Just as I am starting a trial of coconut oil on my scalp to see if it really does encourage hair to grow back. Supposedly the hormone (?) that takes over in the hair follicle and kills growth can be eliminated. Will have to follow this thread. So far, my hair has actually needed washing LESS. Bodies are so odd.