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Do you think you were born to get ill

whodathunkit

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It would be interesting to see if there are people who have Lyme but never develop symptoms.
I suspect there is always a subset of people who are immune to whatever. Not that they're necessarily immune to *everything* (although some people may well have some sort of "super" immune system), only that there will always be some of us who are immune to whatever's trying to infect us.
 

SOC

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Dr Lerner told me that he felt in ME there is a combination of genetic weakness, probably in the immune system, and encountering the wrong infection. So it's a double-whammy situation. You could have the genetic weakness but not encounter the wrong infection and you'd be okay. You could encounter the infection but not have the genetic weakness and be okay. Have the genetic weakness and encounter the wrong pathogen -- not so okay. A similar thought is in play with MS, I believe. Both conditions can run in families, but not strongly, which could make sense if only a fraction of the family members inherit the genetic vulnerability and only a fraction encounter the pathogens in question (whatever they may be). That would mean only a fraction of a fraction of the family would develop ME, which sorta fits the pattern we see.

I don't think Dr Lerner is alone among our specialists to think along these lines. The theory fits the facts tolerably well. The problem is that we haven't yet identified the genetic abnormality or which pathogens could be particularly problematic (although borrellia and herpesviruses are looking like good candidates). We need more, and better, research.
 

Research 1st

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I believe I was born to get this condition. I don't mean this in any religious/spiritual sense but in the sense that I have a genetic vulnerability to react inappropriately to drugs, inoculations, foods, viruses, parasites etc.

Why is it that in the ME outbreaks (Royal free, Lake Tahou) some people got sick and other people didn't? Surely there is a vulnerability or susceptibility to this condition?

I personally think that we would have got CFS/ME regardless of how we lived our lives and that there was very little we could have done about it except delay it for years, decades.

Again, I hope I haven't offended anyone with this thread.

I agree, however it will be subset. (ME is not one disease, due to the diagnostic criteria, it has been diluted via CFS).

I will then dilute this further myself, and only discuss slow onset severe ME in reply to you. (There are generally accepted two forms, slow onset and sudden onset). So from here on, I am discussing slow onset ME, that becomes severe and intractable. I hope that's OK.

I will then explain why I think ME in children (who become adults), isn't the same ME as in their parents (who infected them). So I'll be discussing a slow onset severe ME, as a congenital disease. In my view this is not your average ME, but 25% or less of cases. I think neuroimmune psych CFS does exist, and that's what Lipkin & Hornig are studying,hence they never find any pathogens (the reverse of ME patients who are riddled with Lyme co infections, when they get tested). So we've all got different conditions, and given the wrong diagnosis to share of CFS or CFS/ME which is probably 5+ conditions.

Sticking to your idea, here is why I agree with you (observing a slow onset severe subset) in my own personal situation as someone with a ruined life as a child now rather older than that.

The main reason:

There is apparently unpublished evidence that proves congenital transmission (not CFS). From what I can gather this will be congenital Lyme like disease, but involving another pathogen. If correct. congenital Lyme like disease (aka slow onset ME) is not 'Lyme disease' or 'Chronic Lyme disease' (that you catch from a tick) it is something more akin to Autism.

Naturally I don't know this, it's a unproven hypothesis for now, it may be a rumour and it's never going to be proven or even discussed, but we shall see. But I know some ME sufferers who are sick, barely make normal prion protein (PrPc) in their blood any more. What I also know, is the more severe the patient, the less normal prion (PrPC) they make. What is elusive, of course is 'evidence' of the following:

*Misfolding prion. (If PrPC is absent, then misfolding should be high). In disease, potentially massively high.
*Evidence of low PrPC in ME is not in blood, but in CSF (Spinal fluid). Blood evidence doesn't correlate with neuro.

So in terms of raw evidence, it means almost nothing, but it doesn't mean absolutely nothing it means something that needs further work.

If a certain relevant subset of ME can have the misfolding test, and test our family members (who have 'ME' light) it would then make sense why I have made the following observations that make me curious, in this subset.

1) Some PWME will tell you, they weren't 100% healthy before they met CDC criteria for CFS. This is important!
2) Some PWME will tell you, they can notice the first symptoms at 10 years old, or younger, but weren't 'sick'.
3) The same PWME will tell you they got full blown CFS at age 12-17 (sexual maturity). This is v.important!
4) The same PWME then split into two groups: 'slow onset', and 'sudden onset'. This is critical to remember.

Next set of observations:

5) Fatal ME that begins in adolescence/young adulthood, observe the patients are almost always dead by late 20's early 30's - consistently. This can trick you into believing the patient only survived approx 15 years after infection. My question is, what if they were infected in the first place, aka, a prion disease which has multi decade latency to become fatal (aka Alzheimer's disease). No evidence to prove this exists yet, and certainly not if the poor patient is deceased. Yet most survive. Survivors can be tested for any putative prions, pathogens, genes etc, but they won't if CDC keep their Fukuda CFS, hence weak fatigue criteria is immortal.

6) Life long Severe ME also almost always begins in adolescence. They become housebound. Most, at first are very very ill. Bedridden or hospitalised. If they survive, usually 20 years later they are still very ill, but a little less disabled. For me, this again suggests hormones are involved. (Growth hormone is a potential culprit). One thing to then think about is, GH function in 'CFS' is never tested. In those who are tested, they tend to have very low GH function.(IGF-1 is unreliable, use a stim test). This implies the pituitary is involved, perhaps an autoimmune attack against it.

7) ME parents are rarely as ill as the child. Also note that it's usually one parent infected. There are exceptions, whole families can be diagnosed, but again, always in various levels of disability.

That to me is the smoking gun. The mother is perhaps infected and gave her child the pathogen in her DNA, which explains why the child has developmental ME ('Slow Onset Life Long Severe ME) which is not the same condition (in my view) as other forms of ME or CFS at all, it's a subset. Note that slow onset ME has a much worse prognosis that sudden onset.

8) For me, this is known by the government and this is why umbilical cord is banned by the UK from mothers who develop 'CFS' during a pregnancy. An unprecedented level of caution of pathogen spread, in a cohort alleged to be mentally ill, in need of CBT GET!!!!!

To conclude I believe the following is probable, not just possible:

Original 1950's ME is transmissible, but only to genetically linked family members. (Hence cluster outbreaks). ME is otherwise sporadic in the main. I believe these people are then carriers and can spread it as an STD, to their own children. A mitochondrial infection perhaps. These V2.0 ME patients, are far more ill, than the parents as they are born with a form of novel immunosuppression or become like this by teenage years.

Recap:

Group 1: The infected parents, (who may never become sick) or may take 50 years to get symptoms if at al (just like Alzheimers' disease).

Group 2: The infected child (who is born with latent infection and activates it during adolescence + an inflammatory cascade (infection, vaccine, acute severe stress, trauma, chemical exposure). A person who goes onto develop slow onset severe ME and never recovers as they have a DNA infection. Thus they are born to be sick.

If you then see what they did in the 1950's, the following may occur historically over time:

The kids with slow onset severe ME don't have the original 'outbreak disease', they have the congenital form, hence they are very 'different to other subsets.

This could explain why mom or dad is either asymptomatic, or CFS light, because mom or dad wasn't born with the putative agent,they caught it, as adults who had a completed immune system (Unlike the teenagers who 'catch' ME).
 

digital dog

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Excellent posts. SOC I think you nailed it.
GO ESTHER!!!! I was born to party too but now I go to bed early with a camomile tea. I like to live big.
Research, an interesting post. I am going to do all I can to reduce the likelihood of my daughter getting CFS. If she gets mono then I think we're trouble.
 

Mij

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It is my understanding that people can have Lyme in them, but not have symptoms until many years later. So the same sort of thing would apply. It would be interesting to see if there are people who have Lyme but never develop symptoms.

Just like there is a small subset of people with HIV who never develop AIDS. How are their bodies controlling the virus? It might in the genes.
 
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I believe I was born to get this condition. I don't mean this in any religious/spiritual sense but in the sense that I have a genetic vulnerability to react inappropriately to drugs, inoculations, foods, viruses, parasites etc.

Why is it that in the ME outbreaks (Royal free, Lake Tahou) some people got sick and other people didn't? Surely there is a vulnerability or susceptibility to this condition?

I personally think that we would have got CFS/ME regardless of how we lived our lives and that there was very little we could have done about it except delay it for years, decades.

Again, I hope I havent offended anyone with this thread.

Digital dog, Im glad you brought this topic up. In way I think you are correct, in that the way most people live their lives and enviromental factors would make it almost inevitable that some people would get ill. I often see, big differences of vitality and general robustness even in relatively healthy people. Some people can eat and drink what they want and still work ridiculous hours and trounce others in athletic ability. Others try to live a healthy lifestyle, often in response to their poor health, but the majority of their problems persist.

I do however think that many health problems can be avoided/overcome through lifestyle choices, but in terms of practicality these changes can be difficult to figure out what is really helpful/useful and sometimes difficult to implement. Also it is a case of "if we only knew what we know now" as Kathevans mentioned.
 
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@Research 1st facisnating post. It interesting that you mentioned "CFS light", @Hip on this forum has a blog and also wrote in this forum about passing a virus (enterovirus) to friends and relatives who were only moderately affected(CFS light?), whilst Hip himself more greatly affected.

Given the fact pathogens particulary viruses keep cropping up in many cases of ME/CFS, there seems to be very little research in this area. Dr Chia is one who is looking at infectious agents.

Dr Chia interview
 
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justy

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7) ME parents are rarely as ill as the child. Also note that it's usually one parent infected. There are exceptions, whole families can be diagnosed, but again, always in various levels of disability.

My Mother has M.E, I was adopted at birth so didn't grow up around her. she is only mildly affected. Now my daufghter also has it and I believe I acquired something congenitally from my mother, then passed it on congenitally to my daughter. My daughter first became ill during adolescence, then picked up until she only has a few symptoms. We both now also have a Lyme and co infections diagnosis.

That to me is the smoking gun. The mother is perhaps infected and gave her child the pathogen in her DNA, which explains why the child has developmental ME ('Slow Onset Life Long Severe ME) which is not the same condition (in my view) as other forms of ME or CFS at all, it's a subset. Note that slow onset ME has a much worse prognosis that sudden onset.

My M.E was slow onset - some issues in childhood, but gradually developed until I had severe mono at 13, then ok ish until 23, I have had remissions, once for 8 years, but essentially have ended up severely affected.
 

Mij

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I've met 2 people (in person) with M.E who had a slow onset and all three had family members with M.E.

Perhaps there is a difference between acute and slow onset with genetics predispositions.

My GP has 2 patients with HIV who have never had any symptoms in the last 20+ years.
 

digital dog

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Perhaps slow onset is when the virus/inoculation/toxin etc isn't as strong but enough to get the ball rolling in genetically susceptible people and acute is when the virus/innoculation/toxin etc is really powerful?

I have no idea really. I wish I did.
 

digital dog

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Just, Im sorry that your family is plagued by this condition. I bet if you asked your birth mother about your grandmother she would state how ill she was too.

All mine have thyroid problems and autoimmune.
 

Research 1st

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My Mother has M.E, I was adopted at birth so didn't grow up around her. she is only mildly affected. Now my daufghter also has it and I believe I acquired something congenitally from my mother, then passed it on congenitally to my daughter. My daughter first became ill during adolescence, then picked up until she only has a few symptoms. We both now also have a Lyme and co infections diagnosis.
My M.E was slow onset - some issues in childhood, but gradually developed until I had severe mono at 13, then ok ish until 23, I have had remissions, once for 8 years, but essentially have ended up severely affected.

Sorry to hear that. It's dreadful you're ill and your family too, even more sad because no one told you of any risks (by denial of ME/Chronic Lyme).

Despite what government apologist scientists tell us, there is evidence of congenital transmission and pregnancy problems in Lyme disease, this link has many sources (scroll 1/2 way down page). http://lymediseasechallenge.org/pregnancy-children/

As you know, a whole family can be immune suppressed, have no evidence of why, but all have Lyme or a Lyme like disease that is undiagnosed and cannot be proven so they get a null diagnosis, stay in the closet, or go with 'CFS'.

The problem is we have governments who cannot admit what they've done, as what they have done, is genocide (by allowing people with denied Chronic Lyme and 'CFS' to die due to lack of research and treatment).

Thankfully, there are some good independent researchers who want to help the patients. I think we'll get there eventually, sadly, as so many people are now chronically ill and remain ignored.
 

Hip

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@Hip on this forum has a blog and also wrote in this forum about passing a virus (enterovirus) to friends and relatives who were only moderately affected(CFS light?), whilst Hip himself more greatly affected.

That was indeed the case. As my virus (suspected to be coxsackievirus B) passed to friends and family, I observed it caused the mild but permanent symptoms detailed on my website here in around 90% of the people who caught it. Quite a few of those mild symptoms are ME/CFS-like (which you might class as "ME/CFS-lite" — ie, a very mild level of ME/CFS).

A smaller percentage of people (10%) developed more severe symptoms very soon after catching my virus. 3 out of the 30+ people that I know caught my virus developed pretty severe generalized anxiety disorder; and on the physical side, 3 previously healthy people had sudden heart attacks very soon after catching my virus, and another healthy person had a heart attack a few years after catching the virus. Coxsackievirus B is linked to triggering heart attacks.


However, since ME/CFS has also been linked to other triggering viruses like EBV, which is found in most of the adult population anyway, you are not always going to get outbreaks of "ME/CFS-lite" and other virally-associated diseases in the social group in which an ME/CFS patient is nested.

And I think my enterovirus was a particularly nasty strain, so my experience of this mini-epidemic of virally-induced health problems in my social network may not apply to other people with other chronic coxsackievirus B or echovirus infections.
 
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PennyIA

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My mother was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia; however, she also had b6 toxicity and in my memory, before she passed, she suffered from something very much like ME/CFS. I remember too many things in the list that would fit CCC criteria.

I don't think she was quite as bad as I was as her flare ups never seemed to last more than 4-5 days.

I can't remember if it seemed like she got ill and never recovered or what... as she didn't admit she was ill for quite a while.

I do know that it took me about 12 months of gradually increasing symptoms when I first got sick in 2005; about three months after my Pulmonary Embolism. So, I think I was slow onset; and don't remember being ill... just that as I started to recover from my blood clots, I started to get calf pain and feel 'malaise' and started to get PEM as well as a myriad of other symptoms.

Though, I did have a LOT of bouts of being more tired than the average person from teenage years and on... always dismissed as 'I was trying to do too much'.

Within 18 months of symptom onset, I had my first three month of being bed-ridden due to this.

Now, my youngest son struggles to get through a day of school and seems to have some pretty rough times. At 12, he's already had two weeks twice - where he's been virtually bed-ridden and seems a hair worse than I.

I still don't know my own opinion on genetics vs immune response... I do think that methylation defects CAN'T HELP if it's related to exposures to toxins, etc... and the body is a complex system. Research tends to look at one factor at a time (for a very just reason).

... but it makes me wonder if you need a combination of x + y + z OR A + y + z to SOME degree.

x might be severe virus
y might be toxic exposure or something altogether different
z might be genetics
A might be something completely different (and might explain slow-onset)

And there could be a dozen more... and MAYBE at some point those become sub-classes and can get diagnosed and treated maybe differently.
 

unto

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io penso che non è questione di genoma ,la ME non è ereditaria , non si è predisposti a sviluppare la ME.
La nostra malattia è provocata da un germe(probabilmente un virus) furbo ,che ha
spiccate capacità di eludere il nostro sistema immunitario,(infiamma poco i tessuti);
colpisce il nostro sistema nervoso ,altera la nostra sensibilità verso il basso ,infatti siamo più sensibili alla luce, ai rumori,alle sostanze chimiche,ai cibi,ai farmaci,allo stress.................,inibisce la capacità del nostro corpo di disintossicarsi, per questo
molti malati di ME pensano che l'inquinamento possa essere la
causa (o una causa) della malattia( mentre invece ne è il risultato.......)
Nella mia esperienza con la ME (30 anni) ho notato (con molta angoscia ) varie persone (familiari,amici ,colleghi e partners) sviluppare i sintomi ,anche dopo 20/25 anni dall'esordio della malattia nel mio corpo, questo indica una persistente contagiosità della ME.
naturalmente non ho prove , solo la mia parola

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I think it is not a matter of the genome, the ME is not hereditary, you are not likely to develop the ME.Our disease is caused by a germ (probably a virus) crafty, whoremarkable ability to evade the immune system, (just inflames the tissues);It affects our nervous system, alters our feeling down, in fact we are more sensitive to light, noise, chemicals, foods, medications, stress .............. ..., it inhibits our body's ability to detoxify, whymany ME sufferers think that pollution may be thecause (or causes) of disease (whereas it is the result .......)In my experience with the ME (30 years) I noticed (with much anguish) various people (family, friends, colleagues and partners) to develop symptoms, even after 20-25 years of disease onset in my body, this indicates a persistent infectivity of ME.of course I have no proof, just my word