There's this from p95 of the CBT Patients Manual. (There might be more elsewhere, I've just had a skim.)
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The "wrong" kind of social support
This may seem a contradiction in terms! The examples below illustrate how the wrong kind of support can make it more difficult for you to move forward for the following reasons:
• If you have a very supportive family member (partner, parent or child) who is used to doing everything for you, it may be difficult for you to increase your activity levels. Your relative may feel that they have your best interest at heart and discourage you from doing more. They may have difficulty accepting that in order to make progress, you need to do things at regular times even if you are feeling very fatigued. If family members have been your "carer" during your illness, they can sometimes feel that they no longer have a role when you are getting better which can sometimes lead them to be critical of your CBT programme or suggest that you are making yourself worse. This may then lead you to question the validity of the programme and deter you from persevering with it particularly when you have a lot of symptoms.
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From p102 of the GET Patients Manual.
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What happens if I don't like exercise?
No problem. The important thing to know is that you can chose (sic) any form of activity - for
example DIY, household jobs, craft work or gardening.
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(ie. if you were being encouraged to count housework / chores as part or all of your 'exercise' routine this could affect how you report your need for 'informal care'.)