I saw the way many of the ratbags treated my Mum.
One doctor, a consultant, as soon as I wheeled my mum into his office in her wheelechair, got up and he, laughing, pushed her into the corner, facing into the corner and said "
That's how women should be treated seen and not heard!"
and later claimed he'd never done such a thing.
It had taken all my strength to push her in there thanks to this damned M.E., and same doctor had been one who'd helped me get testosterone shots when another consultant ignored blood tests because of his bias against M.E., but this doctor who'd had phone conversation with my mum (medical consultation), thought she was an old disabled woman and he could have fun with her. So I didn't bajno the son of a bitch, but I wheeled her out of there in fury.
A pair of officious shitheads form the local council made her walk down the stairs at the front of our house, they're over 5' high and real scary when you have COPD, partial paralysis from spinal injury, terrible pain from that injury, and arthritis. they had no BUSINESS doing that, they had no legal right, they weren't doctors, it was about putting in a wheelchair ramp for her and they were just being officious pricks!
I was too sick to even get out of my bed and I was ashamed and infuriated beyond belief I couldn't help her and stop the bastards.
Or the doctor who'd sexually molested her, and I heard the exact same kind of thing about that doctor from several other women over the years independently.
because she was an old, sick woman, she got treated like dirt by some folk. when she was more vigorous she'd have steamrollered them, she was one hell of a ballsy, brave and smart person. But as an old, sick female...like chum in the water
She *COULDN'T* exercise, if someone had forced her, it would have been torture and it would have killed her, so I'd have beaten the living shit out of them first. I don't like that, it's just my disgusted, horrified experience in life that arrogant, bullying, uncaring even outright socio/psychopathic bastards can only be stopped by victims beating the hell out of them.
Sigh.