I really have a lot of good things to say about "I Can Make You Sleep" (other than the title...). I found a used copy (with cd) for a few dollars and I find both parts to be really different from what I've come across/used before, and I've come across/used
a lot of things that I really believed would help a lot, but I would probably trade them all in for just this one. The exercises in the book are different from relaxation techniques and, well, just different. If you're a visual person I think it works very well and perhaps uses a different part of the brain to process. The cd is the one cd I don't lose track of. I have no idea how it might work for anyone else, but it filled a gap that buckyshades, fans, blackout curtains, earplugs, low light, meditation, etc. didn't altogether fill.
Recently, I've used simple carbohydrates just prior to sleep (no doubt making myself fat!), and it does seem to be the something that pushes me from zombie-land to actual unconsciousness. A small piece of buttered bread to be exact.
Massaging the scalp is really something. I almost never think of it, but actually just started rubbing a sore spot toward the back of my cranium (this was after sleeping a couple of hours, waking, and spending about 1.5 hrs awake but headed back to bed). The next thing I knew I literally fell asleep for a several seconds, and I am someone who never, ever,
ever just falls asleep lying on the sofa watching some quiet tv, never. Someone ought to study my brain because I have (and have had since birth) an almost complete inability to even nod off, honestly.
redo, I'm fascinated by your large melatonin intake. I find myself blowing by the 3 mg and wondering if there will be any consequences (I take a liquid dropper). I've always suspected that more might actually be more in this case, but have always been warned about messing with hormones. Please keep updating!
One thing I've come to realize recently is that tachycardia can make it very difficult to fall asleep. This probably seems obvious! Except that I didn't know how high my heart rate was (normal feels normal until it gets
really abnormal for me). I won't explain all of the details or why it took me so long to "get" this, but, if you can only sleep in certain positions or have other symptoms you attribute to anxiety or restlessness, get a heart rate monitor and keep it close by when you're symptomatic. As with a lot of physiology and ME/CFS, it's almost easy to become so used to things that, unless they go to a 9 or 10, they just don't really register. It's very difficult to shine a light when you're neurologically overloaded.