insearchof
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Hi Bob
Yes, which has been regretable.
I think this is a very good assessment of the situation and I agree with your observations.
Appearances is the key word.
I think it might pay for us all to question from time to time, our own perceptions. Is this really what this person is trying to convey? Ok, I am not sure - so many be it is better to ask or summarise their position and ask for clarification before proceeding?
Regarding SOC questions for the sake of keeping the peace, perhaps if she or you can signify that this is agreeable, then I would be happy to respond to them, as best as I am able and when able to do so.
I don't think the discussion has been unnecessarily pedantic, just heated at times.
Yes, which has been regretable.
There has been a certain amount of frustration expressed on this thread, but I think that this frustration just comes from not being able to easily communicate our understanding of the subject, and also not fully understanding other people's perspectives.
I believe that most of the heat in discussions on this subject comes purely from misunderstanding, and miscommunicating, each other's points of view.
It's such a complex and sensitive subject, and it's so difficult to explain our knowledge and points of view in a few sentences on this subject, that people easily misunderstand and miscommunicate each other's perspectives and motivations.
After decades of living with the disease, investigating the subject and seeing the history of ME develop and the disease definition being corrupted by vested interests, i think that some people understandably get frustrated when they perceive that others appear to be unable to grasp their own basic and fundamental understanding and insights of the history of ME and CFS.
Equally, I think that people get frustrated when people appear to be telling them that they don't have ME, and that they only have a non-illness called CFS, unless they've been diagnosed with a historic definition of ME. I know that this isn't what people are saying, but some comments can come across like that and can appear to be arrogant if not communicated sensitively.
In reality, the subject is extremely complex, and it's very helpful to have a thread like this one so that we can all get better insight into the subject.
At the end of the day, we don't all have to agree with each other, but if we understand each other's perspectives, and we collectively develop a better knowledge about the history of ME and CFS and ME/CFS, then I believe that this empowers us all to work together for positive change for our community, even if we don't agree on absolutely everything.
I think this is a very good assessment of the situation and I agree with your observations.
Appearances is the key word.
I think it might pay for us all to question from time to time, our own perceptions. Is this really what this person is trying to convey? Ok, I am not sure - so many be it is better to ask or summarise their position and ask for clarification before proceeding?
Regarding SOC questions for the sake of keeping the peace, perhaps if she or you can signify that this is agreeable, then I would be happy to respond to them, as best as I am able and when able to do so.