Hensue
I am glad to hear you have your results and that the uncertainty is over. Of course the idea of having a retro virus is scary, but at least now you know what you are fighting, and you can start planning for the future.
Think of it this way; Nothing really changed; you already had this virus, but you now know you have it. This piece of information can only be an improvement from before, as you can now ensure better treatment and prevention.
Also, note that 4% of the healthy people carry the virus, so if we estimate that 1% of the total population has cfs, then 80% chance your kids and grand children are fine, GIVEN that they have the virus. However, they may not even have the virus, so the actual chance that they are fine is much higher than 80%, so not to worry about that. If they do get sick later; in a few more years we will probably have treatment for this virus, and especially in early stages of infections, they will be able to treat.
The only thing you have to think about right now is how to improve YOUR quality of living. right now. With this additional piece of information, that is going to be easier as it was before.
Hugs,
Leaves
(BTW I am still not having the results; they are reviewing it for testing it AGAIN, Grrrrmbl I hate this insecurity)