Tania~
You go, girl! Stand up for yourself like a woman! :victory: The personal attacks and bullying around here are getting out of hand; I'm glad you didn't let it get you down.
FWIW, I've found the Ignore setting to be extremely helpful in these situations.
"Asleep" made some rather astute observations on the strong double standards in this forum on this matter. I have para phrased and elaborated a little on the relevant parts of what Asleep said here:
1. Patronizing remarks, comments and terminology (as identified in this thread) designed to steer others = acceptable
BUT
Shining a light on this behavior and raising objections to it= bullying, bashing or a personal attack
2. Negativelabeling or characterizations of others as less than or questionable or vilifying others are all forms of bullying = acceptable
BUT
Identifying and objecting to such = bullying.
I consider this to be a good example of vilifying others Sickofcfs:
"Frankly, if those who claim "genuine" or "classical" ME want to take their ball and go home, fine with me. I think they would be doing themselves a disservice cutting themselves off from the bigger group, but so be it. Before they get too eager to run off, they might want to consider that Mikovitz, Lombardi, Singh, Alter, Lo, the Ruscettis, the Lights, and other American researchers are
not researching the small, selective "real ME" group; they are researching the larger, inclusive group currently identified in the US as "CFS". Cutting themselves off from those researchers seems unwise to me, but maybe they have connections with researchers in the UK and Australia ready to dive in with a concentrated research effort on their select little group.........
To be perfectly honest, I'm getting pretty sick of all the efforts to claim "real" ME or "real" CFIDS, or even "real" CFS. We've all heard the strategy "Divide and Conquer". It looks to me that those people are doing the enemies' work for them -- divide us into so many small groups that we have even less funding, less voice, and less impact than we do now."
http://forums.phoenixrising.me/newreply.php?do=newreply&p=167553
Perhaps you would like to reflect on these matters, as well as the comment you made in this thread, which appears to me, as a classic form of bullying.
Sickofcfs, if you are going to throw stones, it might pay you to move out of your house of glass.