What do you say when you are out and run into people you know who ask how you are(if you're the one who is sick), or how your child is(if he's the one who is sick)? They just keep asking, and asking endless probing follow up questions. I don't want to discuss it, it's too horrible. When my son actually manages to leave the house he doesn't want to discuss it with people either. If they actually cared, wouldn't they drop a "thinking of you" note in the mail, or a meal at the door from time to time? We dread running into people we know and haven't figured out how to handle it yet. What do you do? What do you say?