How about, "They're greedy psychopaths"
I have an inherent issue with believing that psychopathy is that common. People can be selfish or cruel, but the idea that promoting oneself to the exclusion of all others being a trait that
all social-model psychotherapists share leaves out the foolish, the uninformed, the deliberately misled, the people who have backed themselves in an ethical corner from which they cannot escape: that is, the people who have dug themselves so deep into this belief system that leaving the foxhole means exposing themselves to enemy fire.
These are human beings, and approaching them as such is the only way to change their minds - if that is even possible, which I certainly hope it is. When we characterize them as inhuman beasts bent on our destruction, we lose all hope of convincing them. (And from our own point of view, what would be the point of trying to convince them, if they are just monsters looking to profit off of us until they've murdered us all? Trying to work on the unmovable would be illogical.)
I guess in this way, I am doing just as they do, and supporting the point of view that results in the most favorable outcome for me: believing there is more to the GET approach and the diagnosis of somataform disorder than malice + profit. However, when I go searching for data,
therapists apparently are one of the ten professions least likely to house psychopaths.
I mean, I guess all the psychopaths could all have gone into the study of ME, but somehow... I don't know. Maybe psychopathy is the wrong 'diagnosis'. I'd say to go into any of the helping professions (and I include my own, educational background in this assessment) there is a tendency to develop a God complex - that you know better what is best for others than they can determine for themselves - and probably a tendency towards narcissism (look at how awesome I am; look at how well I take care of others; look at how amazingly I do so despite their
virulent protests; woe is me, for they do not appreciate the awesomeness that I am; yet I continue to persist; look at how noble I am, how I continue to work despite any thanks; they'll thank me someday. Someday, when they're cured. *Cue noble fantasy of ex-patients thanking therapist with tears in their eyes*
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Perhaps I'm splitting hairs, but I think which one it is, matters.
I'm working on the assumption that we care about convincing them. I mean, it's very tempting to throw up our hands and say, 'screw it - they are psychopaths, they can't be reasoned with'. But we don't have the time to just wait for all the stupid ones to die off. It'll be another generation of mistreatment.
Psychopaths just need to be persuaded it's in their best interest. "The tide is turning and you know it. Back away from the GET quietly to avoid future litigation." (As previously commented, this is already happening, due to what their lawyers are saying - law, BTW - one of the professions MOST likely to house a psychopath.)
Narcissists have to believe that this will not impact their importance. If you can convince them that they can be a voice for the voiceless or something, they'll jump right on board - so long as you can convince them that will lead to greater importance yet potential for martyrdom than they currently experience.
-J