Hi this is my first post here in phoenixrising. Im soon to be a dad in just a month. I go up and down in my feelings towards beeing a parent and to be honest I dont think I would choose it if my partner didnt want it desperatly. The reason for doubting is ofcourse ME, and since I got Lyme some three years ago it hasnt excactly improved and pain is with me everyday. For you who are parents or parents to be, what feeling do you have about being a parent with ME. Three things worry me. That my child will get ill with ME or lyme or both, that the kid will get sick a lot in the first couple of years (they get everything and are highly contagius) and then will make me even sicker, and also beeing a god parent especially when Im in my worst periods.