So disappointed. The new arguments in this thread are so much less outrageous than those of
@ash0787. I guess ash conceded the debate. Oh well, men do get so
emotional about these things don't they? (This is a joke!
)
There are some situations where men get a rough time, mostly when it comes to parenting rights. I'd like to see this change. And I am sympathetic to some of the things people have said about how lobby groups sometimes exaggerate issues. But lobby groups tend to do this, whatever their cause.
What many men don't get to see is the patronising look in some people's eyes when they talk to a woman (I'm a woman). The assumptions they make, the implicit downgrading of this person's import. Especially doctors. I think men who are part of minority groups or from a low class background might see a version of this, but not your average well educated white male.
As for identifying as a "feminist", that doesn't make a lot of sense to me any more. If it means you think women should have equal rights to men in all situations, then who here would say they aren't one? Why do we need a word for this any more? Surely those who don't believe women should have equal rights are the ones that need a word applied to them, not the rest of us?
Besides, the term "feminist" implies that women's rights are the only thing one wants to protect and promote. Where does that leave all the other people in the world who have to eat a lot of shit ? Like those from low class backgrounds, who are often patronised and told what to do and generally not respected, the mentally ill (same sort of thing), racial, cultural or religious minorities. None of its okay.
I do think the male-female ratio in MECFS has hurt both men and women with the disease. It has allowed psychological theories to blossom unchecked. Okay, psyc theories also abound in GWI. But I think in GWI, there's not quite so much public eye rolling at the mere mention of the name. You can thank us women for that part, guys.