The original question was not about judging my friend. It was about if it's appropriate to impose your health issues on strangers. That was the question of the day. Is it appropriate to go to a restaurant or to go to work and expect the entire world to accommodate whatever health issue is bugging you at the moment? Is it appropriate to expect everyone in the everyday world to not wear fragrance or to speak in hushed tones, or even to wear darker clothing because the colors bother your sensory input? Because when you are dealing with issues of MCS and sensory input, it can really start to cross lines and annoy strangers you don't even know and cause alot of animosity.