My husband went in for his third prostate surgery, but when the doctor came out he said this time it was his bladder (even though his prostate is still severely swollen). The doctor said he thinks my husband's bladder is paralyzed for good and he will have to use a catheter for the rest of his life. We found a different doctor and he is running a several more tests. This is a symptom I have not heard of in relation to ME/CFS or Fibromyalgia. Has anyone else ever experienced a paralyzed bladder? What does this illness NOT do to a person? None of the prostate medicines work anymore for my husband. I ended up buying Saw Palmetto Berry and Pygeum Bark supplements along with Rooibos tea. I also bought Green Tea, Grape skin and Billbery polyphenol supplements to prevent prostate cancer. To our surprise these are working better for him then Flomax or Avodart or any of the other prescription medications he has tried. For any men out there who also have prostate problems I suggest trying these. You can get the Rooibos tea anywhere they sell herbs. Thesage.com has a lot of different varieties. Target has the Saw Palmetto and Puritan.com has both Pygeum bark and Saw Palmetto supplements for cheap. Amazon.com has a variety of polyphenols.