I know these forums are based on M.E./CFS, but I’d like people’s opinions on something I’d like to ask. My question is regarding grieving. I lost my father when I was 10 years old, and I don’t know if I ever grieved. Yes I cried when my grandmother told me he had passed, and yes I cried in the funeral. But nearly 14 years have passed and I can speak about my father with no emotion involved. Also, my grandparents brought me up since aged 5, and I lost them both 3 years ago within the space of 3 months of each other. The reason why I’m asking this question because I really do believe there’s an emotional/unconscious connection as to why I have this chronic illness. So the question is, can someone give their opinion as to whether I’ve grieved the loss in my life? Thanks.