If it was your advice a patient was using to make judgments about a doctor's suggested course of action, then I think it's fair to assume that something has gone badly wrong.
So, a quick recap:
1. someone asked for advice about a clinical diagnosis of Lyme.
New doctor wants to treat empircally for Lyme, good idea?
Standard tests are only 30%, and IgeneX is only 90% accurate. So a negative lyme test is meaningless.
Does this mean everyone keeps testing until it's positive? At some point you empirically treat it?
He wants me to start with Doxycycline or Minocycline.
2. You told him to leave that doctor without asking any questions about said doctor.
Sounds bad to me.
Standard tests are only 30%, and IgeneX is only 90% accurate. So a negative lyme test is meaningless.
That claim is just not supported by the evidence. Personally, I'd leave this doctor. Good luck.
3. You then contested a claim that was not relevant to the issue at hand, namely whether mainstream tests are less sensitive than alternative tests.
[Not sure what that refers to]
4. I pointed out that you hadn't answered the question at hand, which was whether the patient should trust the clinical diagnosis of Lyme. I also pointed out that you didn't know that the doctor had made any claims about mainstream vs alternative testing.
Esther, your bias (we've all got one, but it's best to try to adjust for it) led you into a fallacy: you said that there is no evidence that alternative tests are more reliable than mainstream ones. This is a very controversial issue, and to say there is NO evidence is just silly, but even if that was true, it wouldn't mean that the mainstream tests ARE reliable. And if you remember, the original poster's question was whether he should go ahead with treatment for a clinical diagnosis of Lyme, presumably because he tested negative for Lyme on whatever tests he had done. So you failed to answer his question.
To do so, you would have needed to ask the poster which tests they had had done, and then given your opinion/offered some evidence for the reliability of THAT test, and then asked the poster whether they had had any of the characteristic manifestations of Lyme disease, whether they had been bitten by any ticks, etc. Another good question would be about the doctor who had diagnosed the poster - which Lyme organisation do they belong to? Do they have a good reputation? Did they mention the specific symptoms that led them to make the diagnosis?
Next time, it might be a good idea to actually try to answer the question rather than just go off on your own agenda.
5. You didn't respond to the first point , and then, rather than admitting that you should have asked the poster whether his doctor had said that about testing, you tried to imply that, even if the doctor hadn't said that, the very fact that the poster seemed to believe that meant that the poster shouldn't see any Lyme doctor (this is the only sense I could make of your remark).
I wasn't there, but if this was the information a patient was using to make judgements about a doctor's suggested course of action, then I think it's fair to assume that something has gone badly wrong.