Wildcat, I apologise if I have come across as being a bit harsh on you... But I've read back on my posts, and I don't think I've been unreasonable in raising my concerns with you in the form of a discussion... I apologise if any of my posts have come across as more of a 'lecture' than a discussion... What prompted me to raise the subject is that your posts prompted someone to use the word 'disgusting' in relation to Ed, and I didn't think that this was appropriate or fair. Personally, I don't think that sort of attitude, towards Ed, is helpful for our community to effect change. It's not a constructive approach. I can see that it might have been better to ask you your reasons for focusing so much on Ed, rather than jump straight in criticising you. But I still question how constructive it is to be so publicly negative about an individual who doesn't pretend to represent the ME community, but who has raised funds for a helpful ME cause, before having a full discourse with the individual about all the matters that concern you.