Discussion in 'General Symptoms' started by dean, Jun 7, 2010.
Me too! ....
Mithriel, just another great post by you- precious wisdom!
This sounds like a great idea. Wouldn't yield info for a long time, but very cost-effective and something we could start now. I would be a 'subject' but I don't know much about science, so I couldn't evaluate the idea rigorously and get it started. What do the science-literate people think about this idea? Any of you willing to coordinate such a study? Maybe Prof. Jason would be interested.
I don't worry about death and don't find it a hard topic to talk about.
I'm more worried about spending the rest of my life with this disease and then at the end, having any shortening being dismissed or trivialised.
Luckily, I am in contact with other ME patients and my husband has instructions from me on what to do if I die suddenly.
I've lost so many ME friends and all died before statistically they should have. I owe it to their memory to make sure that their deaths are not forgotten and that the fact that they suffered from ME and died before their time ignored.
The UK ME charities are in the process of evaluating/setting up a tissue bank. There are also other projects ongoing. What use they will be to use is another matter if not handled correctly.
I have almost been hit by a car 3 times in the last few months, all 3 cars stopped right in front of me because I just did not see them, even though I looked several times. I now avoid crossing busy roads
I am worried about death, but that is because I have a young child to raise on my own and I need to stick around long enough to see him grow up and leave the nest. I think I will go back to sticking my head in the clouds and pretending everything is peachy keen though, as it has been playing on my mind waay too much lately, especially the heart stuff involved in ME and it doesn't help at all. I function much better in "peachy keen mode".
Fair enough Tulip,
Sending a hug to you in peachy keen mode.
We all need to find a way to live with this disease. What works for one may not necessarily work for another.
Good idea to bring up the accidents and busy roads!
Ukxmrv thanks :Retro smile:
It is good though that we can all talk about death on here if and when needed without being censored
Dying from CFS???? I think so
I just found this thread, and I wish I had found it sooner. I AM afraid of dying soon. My sister died at 49 from CFS, but her death certificate says, cardiomathy, multisystem failure. (Not CFS, so it will not be counted) I am 58, on oxygen, have heart, lung, kidney failure. My mother on the other hand, whom we are sure had CFS, lived to be 73. But she wasn't as ill as my sister and I until 2-3 years prior to her death.
In the beginning (2001) of my life with CFS, I thought it didn't effect mortality. Now we know differently. And it isn't easy...I am in bed, in pain, nauseous, no appetite anymore,(45 pound weight loss) a perpetual headache, and on oxygen to breathe, and I am most afraid of dying of congestive heart failure...suffocating. I feel like it must feel to have HIV-AIDS.
Sorry to be so depressing, but I am having a terrible night tonite. Usually I can put on a good face, but not tonite.
I am alone and scared....
I'm very sorry to hear that you are suffering from so many serious health problems.
Thinking of you,
Sorry to Meg, to hear of the terrible pain you are in. Not surprised that you are scared. Anyone would be in the circumstances.
You are not alone. There is a CFS and ME community. We will listen to you.
I know that it is not the same as someone to hold your hand and say that it is all OK. But we are here and you are important. Keep talking and keep posting please.
MEG there are so many kind generous people on here to support you, most of us have been where you are and we truly understand how you feel, some days it just feels too heavy, but I'm hoping today is a better day for you, stay strong and like ukxmrv says keep talking and posting.
MEG. was anybody on chat last night? I'm sorry that you're struggling with so much, and if you feel alone it's that much harder. I get on chat almost evey day, and often we're just silly and joking. But whenever anybody needs to really talk, we're there for each other. I'm never on in the middle of the night, though....
Hugs to you,
I am so sorry that you are suffering every day like this! I didn't know it has been this hard, this bad, for you, and that your relatives also were sick with ME/CFS and went downhill the way you described. I think it is right for us to hear, because I believe the majority on this forum are younger than me or you, and may not have or want to have a sense of how ME/CFS relates to mortality.
Our culture denies death, though we are obsessed with it too in our appetite for violence as entertainment and as a way to render "justice". People are living longer and longer, now, it seems, 85 and up, but now half of those are disintegrating with Alzheimer's. By comparison, at the beginning of the 20th century, most women at least, did not live even to the age of menopause. The long lives of today's standards may just be a temporary fluke in history.
However long you or I or anyone here lives, I hope we can help each other improve our lives' quality, by sharing, helping and caring.
Keep on sharing!
Hi Meg, thinking of you this morning from my side of the world. I am so sorry for your pain and the losses in your family. Sending hugs ((( )))
Hi MEG ***sending hugs***
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