Is it possible for people in the U.K. who are on disability to get a nurse to come to their house and check on them a couple times a week. My sister-in-law has FMS and what they think is the beginning stage of Alzheimers. A med student comes to her house, checks up on her and cleans. (We live in a college town.) She also has meals delivered to her house. I think it is a "meals on wheels" plan. Perhaps if she did not have the Alzheimers diagnosis this would not happen. I am not sure. Could you call the disability office where you are at and explain your situation or get your doctor to fill out the paper work so you could get some type of help like this? I am not sure how things work there. I see now where you mention home help. I hope that happens for you.