Well, this has been very educational for me.
I'd been assuming that more people have PEM like I do, which lasts a minimum of 10 days and that's with the best self-care I can manage -- basically staying in bed most of the time. But clearly my assumption was far off the mark. It makes me wonder if my daughter doesn't sometimes have PEM for 24hrs and we don't acknowledge it because we're used to thinking of PEM lasting days, weeks, or months, and feeling crappy once in a while is normal for ME.
Still, there must be more people who have long PEM recoveries because I hear a lot of fear about the CPET causing long-term PEM. I PEM pretty severely, it appears, and I've done the 1 day CPET twice without getting a months-long PEM. So where are my severe PEM cohorts?
Are a crash, a relapse, and PEM different? For me they seem to be the same thing, although I might use different words in different contexts or depending on the length of the episode.
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The other difference I'm noticing between myself and others is how long it takes the PEM to hit. Obviously, when I was in a continuous state of PEM I felt bad during and immediately after activity, but I felt awful
all the time. However, even in the early days my PEM took 4 days (like clockwork) to hit. It took years to figure that out; in fact, other people figured it out before I did. But even though it takes days to hit, it is
not subtle. It comes on very hard and very suddenly.
I wonder why I'm different from so many of you. Maybe the fact that my OI is not severe results in less immediate symptoms. Maybe it takes my body longer to rev up inflammation or cytokine reactions. I dunno. Another ME/CFS/SEID mystery.
It depends how much I overdo and whether I go back to continuing to overdo as soon as a I can. If I go back to exerting as soon as it is bearable, the next crash is longer, and so on. If I keep overdoing it can last weeks.
I agree that continuing activity while in PEM will just extend the PEM episode. If I don't go into major rest mode during PEM, I will stay in a constant state of PEM for months, or even years. That was what I was doing for the first 5-6 years I had the illness, before I understood about either pacing or PEM.
During my worst period, I could do practically nothing -- walk across the room, carry something heavy, fix the simplest meal, make a bed -- without causing PEM. So it was impossible not to be in a constant state of PEM.
I find this a hard question to answer! I am not sure that I am not in some sort of PEM state most if not all of the time. A small amount of exertion worsens that, for anywhere from a few hours to a few days, but I feel unwell all the time. It's rare that I don't feel exhausted....
That's how I felt all the time until I finally learned that I needed to be recliner- or bed-bound nearly continuously. I hated it, but it did help me minimize the constantly exhausted state -- that and some other symptomatic treatments. It sure sounds to me like you are in a constant state of PEM.
It all depends.. maybe the person who got the one day PEM only made a bed to get that and didn't do anything else.
When consider a persons severity.. better to go by how much they are able to do before they get that PEM. They may be cutting down their activities to a point in which the PEM last only a day or two but doing near nothing in their lives at all to be at that level of PEM. Anyway.. wanted to point out that maybe doing something like just making a bed then have put them into bed for 24hrs!! even if they recovered back to their baseline after that. (they could be in that situation all the time.. only able to make one bed per day before another 24hr crash).
You're right. A very low PEM threshold is extremely debilitating even if the PEM only lasts 24 hours. In my experience, with a PEM threshold that low, it's nearly impossible to avoid being in a constant state of PEM.
I have not experienced PEM for over 7 months now because I stay within my limits. I have gone over several times but no PEM. First time in years. I attribute it to COQ10.
My PEM threshold seems much higher, too, since I've been taking high-dose CoQ10. I can still PEM myself, but it takes a lot more. I think I went 8 months before I PEMed myself the latest time.
When my brain begins buzzing and cognition worsens, I know it's time to stop what I'm doing. If I stop immediately, the PEM lasts about 24 - 48 hours. On those occasions where I can't stop the activity, The PEM starts immediately and progresses to it's worst in 3-4 days. The climb back to baseline depends on how long I continued activity beyond my threshold.
Interesting. That doesn't work for me at all. I feel fine during the activity, so I have no way of knowing at the time that it's too much. I only know how much I overdid by how bad the crash is afterwards. Wearing a HR monitor to avoid going over my AT helps me judge my appropriate level of activity. If I keep going until I feel symptoms, I'm
way, way past my PEM threshold and I'll be bedbound for weeks or months.
As my condition improved with treatment, my PEM threshold raised and the duration was lessened. My impression is that my level of health linearly correlates with my PEM and Its duration. It is rare for me now to have PEM that last more than 24 hours. I also think that I'm better at not pushing myself when I develop PEM and generally shut it down until I get to baseline.
The same is true for me. It seems that good treatment can increase PEM threshold and lessen the duration. Now that I'm as "healthy" as I've been in over 10 years, I'm largely asymptomatic, I can go for months without PEM if I pace properly, and my PEM episodes when they do happen are the shortest they've ever been. The problem for me is that when I do develop PEM, I have to go into major rest mode to keep the length of the PEM episode under 2 weeks. For me, that means severely limiting even self-care activities and spending every spare minute in bed.