Hi everyone, I'm really worried about my husband, he has been getting a progressivly worse memory over the last 6 mths, his memory was fantastic before , sleeping really badly i.e he wakes at 2.30am and can't get back to sleep for ages, and then wakes again by 6am. More colds, eye infections (we haven't caught anything off of him), joint problems, and since xmas keeps getting hit by massive mental tiredness(as he calls it). He plays squash a couple of times a week, and recently when he's played he looks and feels absolutely terrible. He came in on saturday and looked as white as a sheep, you know the colour we all know so well! He went to the doctor yesterday to get MORE antibiotics for his ongoing conjunctivitus. I asked him if he mentioned not sleeping etc & typical man only asked if he could be generally looked over, when the doctor asked as to why, he said no reason particarly just that at age 51yrs he thought he could do with a check up. I'm really worried as he NEVER makes a fuss about anything or worries me with any of his ailments. Have any of you passed on ME/CFS to your husbands/partners/wives/girlfriends? We already have 3 members out of 6 with me/cfs in our house. Myself (for 2 years), my daughter(for 7yrs), my son( for 4yrs).