Jenny TipsforME
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It is eye opening about what they think life with ME is like
They need to do something like that TV programme when the doctor stays in your house for a couple of days to see what your life is like. I can sort of see how the misunderstandings occur but they're not hearing what we mean when we describe our lives.
Someone who has depression just commented to me that these diaries look like someone struggling to manage mild depression. I've lived with several people who've had depression and I'd say that was spot on. Severe depression is obviously a different kettle of fish, would be as limited as us but in a different way.
There's also something about it which reminds me of a Protestant Work Ethic ethos. Also a bit like when politically conservative people say "poor people don't know about fridge management!" Poor people are precisely the people who know about fridge management. If you're watching every £ you don't let food go off. Similarly if you want to know how to manage limited energy ask someone with ME...
They need to do something like that TV programme when the doctor stays in your house for a couple of days to see what your life is like. I can sort of see how the misunderstandings occur but they're not hearing what we mean when we describe our lives.
Someone who has depression just commented to me that these diaries look like someone struggling to manage mild depression. I've lived with several people who've had depression and I'd say that was spot on. Severe depression is obviously a different kettle of fish, would be as limited as us but in a different way.
There's also something about it which reminds me of a Protestant Work Ethic ethos. Also a bit like when politically conservative people say "poor people don't know about fridge management!" Poor people are precisely the people who know about fridge management. If you're watching every £ you don't let food go off. Similarly if you want to know how to manage limited energy ask someone with ME...