I think you're wrong, to an extent. I have had people start out behaving like trolls who actually seemed to take things on board when I replied with some information regarding objective information, followed by a couple questions from them and a couple more explanations.
I agree that that can happen sometimes but the vast majority of the time, it doesn't. Someone who starts off posting like a troll keeps on posting like a troll. I don't think it's possible to predict which "trolls" might shift their position and become reasonable so if one of us responds to a troll in the hope of it turning into a reasonable discussion, they'll have fed a whole bunch of trolls who won't be reasonable and the thread will go down the pan.
Valentijn said:
I think it's also unhelpful for the public to see Troll Comments with a couple up-votes from their fellow trolls, followed by no rebuttal, or a brief explanation of why they are wrong.
I think we can down-vote the troll with no problem, and that we can rebut their argument, but I really do feel very strongly that we should rebut it and explain why it's wrong without directly replying to to troll, and ideally without appearing to have noticed their existence. A "those unfamiliar with ME/CFS might like to know that the prestigious Institute of Medicine report said the the disease is clearly not psychological in origin", for example, rather than "it's wrong to say that ME/CFS is all in our heads".
People on the internet have got used to seeing trolls on comments threads and they know what they are. A troll who is getting ignored by everyone looks like a weak troll - someone who is so despised by the others on the thread that they don't even bother responding to him/her. A troll who is getting a lot of energy expended on him/her looks like they've hit a sore point where our argument must be weak, otherwise we wouldn't be spending all our time and focus defending the point.
Also, a troll who is getting a response and getting attention will keep posting. And because on a thread, people who read the article see the most recent comments, there's a good chance they're going to read the latest vile post from a troll who has kept on posting because he/she has got lots of attention. We don't want people seeing this crap. We want them reading the positive messages about donating and supporting the research effort and about how the science is progressing and the personal things about how awful this disease is, and so on. We want those troll messages buried at the bottom of the pile where they won't be seen.
I don't see that as talking to them when I respond, but rather as talking to everyone else.
If you weren't hitting the 'reply' button, I'd agree - but it's hitting the 'reply' button (or otherwise making it clear that you're making a direct response to the troll) that feeds the troll with attention and keeps them posting.
What I do think is not helpful is to repeatedly go back and forth when the troll is ignoring what has already been said. Then there is really no point, and it's those snippy back-and-forths which are never looking good.
I agree that that's also not helpful but I think that that's another reason for not responding to the troll in the first place - in fact, for setting the example of never responding to the troll. Other PWME read these threads and when they see someone engaging the troll, they try to join in so that they can help but they do it poorly and those threads turn to shit.
Sorry to disagree with you on this, Val - your responses to the trolls are so well-framed and clever but there's a deep sickness with those trolls and I just don't think it's possible to engage with them directly and have a good outcome be at all likely.
But it's always possible to knock down their arguments without replying to the troll directly, and that's going to make us as a community look far stronger. I'd love for us to just ignore the trolls and leave them looking like the isolated nutters that they are, ignored by everybody at the party.
Glad we're talking about this - it's an important discussion.