I've now taken to avoiding people who are sort of friends, but who always ask you to do something. I'm not well enough. I have one neighbor in my building who is like that. She doesn't understand that I'm not well enough to drive her anywhere. And she doesn't take no for an answer. Like anything I say, she just doesn't get it and says she'll call me in a few days about driving her someplace. And now I just avoid her.
People just don't understand that just because I still have a car and can go out like twice a month, that doesn't mean I'm well enough to drive anyone anywhere. I barely make it to the store and back and I'm usually dead when I come home. And I don't want the responsibility of anyone else in my car. I don't think I am well enough to drive much. And when I do drive, I have to concentrate a hundred times more than a healthy person does. And gas is expensive now, too.
Anyone else go through that, where people keep expecting you to do stuff and you can't?
People just don't understand that just because I still have a car and can go out like twice a month, that doesn't mean I'm well enough to drive anyone anywhere. I barely make it to the store and back and I'm usually dead when I come home. And I don't want the responsibility of anyone else in my car. I don't think I am well enough to drive much. And when I do drive, I have to concentrate a hundred times more than a healthy person does. And gas is expensive now, too.
Anyone else go through that, where people keep expecting you to do stuff and you can't?